YOU
CHOOSE.
Women discover and make the first move. Men build a profile, verify with a selfie, and wait. A woman is never listed to men unless she chooses to be, and only she can start the conversation.
- 18+
- Verified profiles
- Block and report, moderation around the clock
- 01MEN BUILD A PROFILEPhotos, a few questions, selfie verification. Then they wait to be chosen; they never message first.
- 02WOMEN DISCOVERFilters, distance, verified badge. She browses as long as she likes; her profile is listed to men only if she chooses.
- 03WOMEN MAKE THE FIRST MOVEShe starts the conversation. Only then can he reply.
THIS IS WHAT YOU GET
Discover, profiles, waiting mode — the real screens, in your language, exactly as they look after you install.
- SHE OPENS HIS PROFILE
- HE WAITS
SAFETY FIRST, CONVERSATION SECOND.
Safety is not a setting here, it is the product. Who can see whom is decided on the server, never in the app.
Selfie verification
Men complete a selfie and pose challenge before they can be listed in discovery; women complete the same step before sending a first message. Anything that does not match goes to a human review queue.
Block and report
Blocking and reporting are one tap away on every profile and inside every chat. Someone you block can no longer see you or write to you.
Moderation
Photos pass an automated check before they go live and reports land in a moderation queue. Content that breaks the rules is removed and accounts are suspended or closed.
Delete your account any time
In the app: Settings → Delete account. The request covers your account, profile and photos. If you cannot get into the app, you can send the request from the web.
SHE DECIDES WHO SEES HER.
A man sees the woman who wrote to him, inside that conversation. A woman appears to men in Swipe only if she turns it on herself: Premium men then see her and can leave a like or a short note, free men see only a blurred card with no name or photo, and only she can start a chat. If she never turns it on, no man ever sees her. This is enforced in the API's visibility layer, not in the client.
Men see profile views as a number only: no identity, no photo, and it is never sold in any plan.
SHORT ANSWERS.
How does OnlyMens work?
Men create a profile, verify and wait. Women browse men in discovery, filter, and start the conversation. The first message always comes from a woman.
Can men see women's profiles?
Only if she chooses. By default a man sees only the woman who wrote to him, inside that conversation. A woman can choose to be visible to Premium men in Swipe and switch it off at any time; even then, only she can start the conversation.
Is verification required?
Men must complete selfie verification to be listed in discovery. Women complete the same step before sending a first message. Verification images are never shown on your profile.
Is it free?
Creating a profile, discovering and starting a conversation are free. Men have free messages every day; unlimited replies need Premium. Premium also lets men see the women who chose to be visible in Swipe. Plus gives women unlimited conversations, Passport, incognito mode and undo.
How do I delete my account?
In the app, go to Settings → Delete account. If you cannot get into the app, the account deletion page shows you how to email us the request.
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
Download the app and build your profile. You must be 18 or older.